Anyone who is
friends with me on Facebook saw me post about the experience in the
Newborn Intensive Care Unit (NICU). That was an unexpected experience.
I guess all the good ones are.
We
got a phone call from the sister missionaries asking us to give a
blessing to someone they were teaching. They didn't warn us about
anything (maybe that's the wrong word) so we headed over to the
hospital, walked the 50 miles to find the room, and then realized we
were in the NICU.
A nurse brought us over to the incubator that the
baby was in. She was born 2-3 months early, I'm not too sure. Tiny. The
first thing I noticed was the nurse rubbing its arms, trying to get
blood flow or something. As we got closer I realized it was even smaller
than I initially thought. We had no idea how to give a blessing to a
baby whose head is the size of a tennis ball. So we excused ourselves to
make a few phone calls.
And naturally no one answered. We called the mission
president, his wife, the counselors, their wives, the mission
office...We stood in the hallway looking like a bunch of amateurs haha.
Then a small miracle happened and a woman walked around the hallway,
actually a nurse, and said, "you look lost!" We were. Turns out she was
LDS and specialized in NICU care. Woo! So we talked to her, she went and
looked at the baby, and then told us what we should do. Haha I felt
like a child. So we each put a finger on the baby's head and gave it a
blessing.
It was a really powerful experience. There was a
really sweet spirit in that hospital room. It was one of the more
powerful experiences on my mission and one I hope I'll never forget.
The day before we had had the unique opportunity to counsel
with President Toone on some mission topics. We had driven to the
mission home for something and he had invited us in to talk. We sat down
and talked about some of the needs of the zone and of the mission. For
1.5 hours we talked about refocusing and future trainings. It was really
awesome to be able to talk about the whole robotic thing - which has
been my focus for the past transfer. President said, "SLC doesn't want
robotic missionaries, I don't want robotic missionaries, you don't want
robotic missionaries, and the Lord doesn't want robotic missionaries."
We realized what makes a robotic missionary:
1) the MTC
2) Nerves
3) Laziness
So
at President's request and approval we are going to be refocusing and
doing a lot more exchanges and doing a lot more hands on activities to
teach how to be...normal.
For instance last night we had a really cool OYM. We
walked up to them, three women outside, started laughing with them,
asking about work, and the I asked, "What was the highlite of your past
week?" "Work," one said, "school," said another, and the last said, "my
husband coming home." We asked, "Oh yeah? Where was he?" "At a family
funeral."
And BAM! A smooth transition into the doctrine of
eternal families and the plan of salvation. We have a return appointment
tonight.
I also was able to go on exchanges
with someone in his first two weeks last week as well. He is an amazing
missionary but was worried about OYMs. We talked for a while about
really loving and really serving and really caring and how you can
relate that to OYMs. Next I told him that in an OYM we need to be
looking "for clues:" cars, posters, you name it. There's always
something that can help you have a nice conversation with someone. We
walked up to a man grilling some hotdogs and hit it off with him about
hobbies and talents. His wife came outside next and started speaking in a
pretty loud voice about how she had just been offended by two mormons.
I was pretty sure she was going to start anti-ing us
but we asked her more about where she was from and how she met them.
She eventually started to cry as we learned these "two mormons" were
their close friends and she was scared of losing them. She was stressed
and tired. We bore testimony and I shared DC 24 with her about being
patient in afflictions. Those Elders have a return appointment with her tomorrow.
It just works. There is so much of a difference
between a rote approach and a genuine question. It just works!!! The
next question is how to get that out to the mission...
We
had the really great experience this past week to have a small lesson
and take President and Sister Toone out with us. We have a woman on date
to get baptized next weekend and she had some concerns we couldn't
address. We took P and S Toone and told them the stage was theirs and by
the end of it the woman was ready. She sent us a text message that
night saying,
"I did read and will continue. Thank you for the
opportunity to be there tonight. My fears and doubts are all alleviated;
a huge step for me. I am ready to be baptized. The meeting was
outstanding. Thank you."
The six words, "I am ready to be baptized" were
touching and inspiring to hear. President and Sister Toone are good
missionaries!
I fall asleep ridiculously fast.
I can lay down, head on pillow as Elder Friley started his nightly
personal prayers and be asleep before he finishes. His prayers aren't
long. That's a blessing!
We've been visiting some people in the zone this past week in the mornings at around 8am.
We show up at their door, a surprise, with donuts in hand and take
personal and companionship study with them. It has been fun to be with
them as they've prepared for the day, learn from them, and offer them
advice as well. We've been asked to let our area slow down a bit and
focus on others' for a bit.
Why? 71 missionaries are in their first 12 weeks. 71 of 191. 100 of those are in their first 18 weeks.
Yeah. The mission is insanely young right now.
This
past week for personal study I have been rereading the last conference
talks in preparation for the upcoming conference! What has stuck out to
me is how almost all of the talks focused on 1) the family, 2) personal
peace, and 3) being close to God. I'm really excited for this upcoming
conference, for announcements, and for taking investigators. I'm sure
this extra preparation will help more than just me. And the great thing
is that because I'm taking the notes on the gospel library app they all
sync up with my lds.org account so I'll have them forever!
The lowlight of this past week was losing my camera
and all the pictures I've taken for 15 months! I was stressed out of it
and sat down and thought about every step I had taken in the past 4
days. That was a lot of steps. I worked out that it was in the house but
I couldn't find it anywhere.
I found it yesterday morning! It was at the bottom of my backpack that I don't use anymore. Que milagro!
We've
been getting anti'd a lot over Facebook. That's the downside of the
online aspect - people have access to false information and share things
they shouldn't.
Someone I'm teaching on Facebook was in the same
building that the suicide attacks that happened yesterday in a Pakistani
Christian church! How ridiculous is that? He has been messaging me and
sending me pictures of it and it is absolutely insane. Pray for them!
We found a family this week through amazing
circumstances. The Relief Society was given charge to hand out
invitations to the General Relief Society broadcast this week to every
sister. Well, for one reason or another they got it late and the
presidency had to hand deliver everything. Most of them ended up taped
on doors. The Presidency wasn't too excited about the prospect of
delivering 200 invitations but did it regardless.
One of those invitations ended up on a families door
who hadn't been to church in a while and whose father was investigating
but moved and lost contact with the missionaries. They hadn't sent
their records over and had no idea how the church knew their address.
That touched them. And then the next night we ran into them and they
took it as a sign! He's on date now for the 19th of October! We told the Relief Society President and she was visibly happy to see the fruits of her labors.
Yesterday I reached the highest point I've been to on my mission. The seventh floor of the hospital! Everything here is flat.
IT'S
COLD...ish!!! Yesterday couldn';t have been over 85 degrees with a nice
cool breeze all day! Today it's 81 and it feels like HEAVEN! I forgot
what it felt like to not be melting.
Anyway, thanks for the letters Mark, Eric, Will, and Mom!
Hope everyone has a great week this week!
Con amor,
EJ
(Sorry, I forgot my sunglasses were on in that picture)